It'll Get Better!
Goodnight

Today was cool !! I did a bunch of cool things that sorta shocked me.
Someone should help me with my sign language final pretty please !!! I have to choose a song and I don’t know which ones to choose (I have no ideas).

I miss hearing from you guys !! Message me please? Okay, I love you all xx goodnight!!

October 21 with 1 note

1. it’s not your fault when your anxiety or depression flares up and you lose control of your emotions.

2. always remember: when you want to kill yourself, don’t.

3. you’ll forget all about that boy who broke your heart in ninth grade.

4. always remember: you deserve to fall in love with being alive.

5. don’t blame your ex for your sadness.

6. always remember: be nice to your mother, she loves you.

7. cutting calories won’t make you happy.

8. always remember: don’t feel bad about yourself when someone doesn’t want you. it’s not you, it’s them. it’s always them.

9. you don’t need anyone else to complete you. you’re whole as you are.

10. always remember: you are alive and that is a truly wonderous thing.

11. don’t hold people hostage in your life when they decide to leave.

12. always remember: you were beautiful long before he told you that you were.

13. the most toxic people in your life can teach you the most valuable lessons.

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swallowedthesea:

Hi 😇

swallowedthesea:

Hi 😇

happydays-and-daisychains: Okay so sorry about my inner 12 year old but NO FREAKING WAY, YOU WENT TO A CHEETAH GIRLS CONCERT?!?!?!?! I USED TO WATCH THE MOVIE WHENEVER I WAS AT MY DADS FLAT AND HATE THE FACT THAT I WAS NEVER AS COOL AS THEM!!! and that I didn't live in america because lets face it, that's where all the cool stuff happens!!! 

YEAH I WAS IN THE 3RD GRADE AND HANNAH MONTANA WAS THERE AHHHH

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Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels. Often, that’s a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don’t want to. But other things are harder. Try it: “I’m not going to edit your résumé, sweetie, because it’s not a priority.” “I don’t go to the doctor because my health is not a priority.” If these phrases don’t sit well, that’s the point. Changing our language reminds us that time is a choice. If we don’t like how we’re spending an hour, we can choose differently.
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happydays-and-daisychains: 4,26,63,28,32,51,76 

4. Is trust a big issue for you?

Yeah

26. Is your current hair color your natural hair color?

Like 95% is. Part of it is bleached blonde underneath.

28. What was the last thing that made you laugh?

My last text to Kristen

32. Does the person you have feelings for right now, know you do?

Okay so I think he does ?? I’m not sure tbh

51. Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer?

Do school pictures count ?

63. First concert?

Cheetah Girls lmao

76. Regularly burn incense?

Nope but my grandparents do !! I sometimes burn candles.

Thank you xx

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Anonymous: 1,14,18,31,45,58,69,72?84,90? You're totally awesome and I'm so god I stumbled upon your little oasis of happiness! 

You’re a little ray of sunshine xx

1. Would you have sex with the last person you text messaged?

Kaitlyn 😏😏

14. What are you going to spend money on next?

Probably gas

18. The last time you felt broken?

Like 5 hours ago

31. Honestly, do you hate the last boy you were talking to?

Noooo. I love noah he’s my best friend

45. If you could, would you take back your last kiss?

If I could I would have my first kiss by now

58. Ever have a Deja-vu feeling?

I use to have that feeling so often I thought I was psychic

69. Ever take dance lessons?

I’ve already answered this ^.^

72. Ever won a spelling bee?

Twice !! (Only the classroom ones though)

84. Can you hold your breath without holding your nose?

Yupp

90. Opinions on sex before marriage?

Go for it if ya want. It doesn’t effect my sex life and it’s no big deal

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Anonymous: What are the signs of emotional abuse? 

the-goddamazon:

mental-health-advice:

Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.

Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.

Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.

Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.

Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.

Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,

Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.

Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.

Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.

Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.

Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.

Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.

Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.

Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.

Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.

Love, Salem

The last one is a killer and very important.

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orangeorphanblack:

skeleton war sign up sheets

orangeorphanblack:

skeleton war sign up sheets

kylvit:

odins-one-eyed-fuck:

isthisusernametakenyet:

I support Farming.

In fact, you could call me

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WOW

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October 21 with 67,015 notes
demon-deans-meatstick:

warpsbyherself:

gallouvich:

justemoiici:

clannyphantom:

icarly-official:

backdoorteenmom:

Don’t be surprised when they bring a gun to school

that’s not even complicated you literally add 26 and 19 then simplify 2025 over 45 to be 45/1 then multiply 24 and 45 making it 1080 then add 1080 and 47 and unlock the iPad with the passcode 1-1-2-7 god bless

looks like we found ourselves a nerd

looks like we found someone capable of basic math

how is that basic math

this is basic math

behold 
the american school system

demon-deans-meatstick:

warpsbyherself:

gallouvich:

justemoiici:

clannyphantom:

icarly-official:

backdoorteenmom:

Don’t be surprised when they bring a gun to school

that’s not even complicated you literally add 26 and 19 then simplify 2025 over 45 to be 45/1 then multiply 24 and 45 making it 1080 then add 1080 and 47 and unlock the iPad with the passcode 1-1-2-7 god bless

looks like we found ourselves a nerd

looks like we found someone capable of basic math

how is that basic math

this is basic math

behold 

the american school system